Our society has tried to make death invisible, thinking that if we ignore it long enough it will go away. Often we as family and loved ones are so afraid of death that even mentioning the word to terminal patients is taboo. We think the dying are oblivious to what is happening to them. Sadly, a dying person frequently feels afraid to bring it up him or herself. When I enter a hospital room I often hear a sigh of relief. At last, someone is here to help the family come to terms with what is playing out before them. Death has too long been the elephant in the living room, while everyone awkwardly discusses the weather. .Megory Anderson
About This Quote
Throughout our lives, we are constantly faced with death. No matter if we are young or old, no one is exempt from death. It is a part of life that everyone will face at some point in their lives. The best way to deal with the idea of death is to discuss it openly.
If you are concerned about dying, talk to your family and loved ones about it. Let them know that you are doing everything possible to help ease their pain. By open discussion with your family, you can make sure they are prepared for your impending death.
Source: Sacred Dying: Creating Rituals For Embracing The End Of Life
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